how??

Salam...

How do you advise people?Or to be exact,your peers?.
Do you know how hard it is to do so but then of course,it's not impossible,right?

Well,well,well...that's what I've been asking myself all this time.I admit that I have a hard time to advise or confront people when there's problem.Especially on coughlovecough.Blame it on my lack of social experience.

It especially gets reeaaaallly awkward if someone were to ask my opinion on the topic of love.I mean,the 'love' which equals to the quest of finding your soulmate.Uh,I don't have a clue on that.Truly,I don't feel the need of having and longing to find your soulmate every now and then.Allah s.w.t has promised us on that,right?So,what's with the rush?

And,this is a thought to be pondered upon by you and me.What of the love towards our Creator?Are we simply dismissing this love(which I believe,is the greatest love of all) as something not worth to be longed for?Do we love Him like we're supposed to?I do respect those who love each other because of Allah though.But,how to know that the love that we have towards each other is because of Him?Hmm...please give me some enlightenment.Frankly,I do not know.

Back to my main question.How to say it out loud--I mean,how to advise or to bring an understanding of this kind of love to my peers?It always have been a problem to me.I really don't know how to make them understand because I don't understand their version of 'love' either.Of course,unless if they are reading my blog.

Agagaga...anyone??I need your opinions or thoughts on this matter.Jeez,I feel kind of ashamed and stupid for asking this kind of question.*rubs the back of head*
But,if I do not ask now,I doubt that I'll ever understand and know how to tackle this kind of problem.

p/s : the unconscious mind has taken over me while I'm writing/typing the post.and NO,I'm not interested in any other kind of love except for the love for my Creator,parents,family and friends...=)